Thanks so much, Yael! Your question is very important. If she were dressing this way in private, I would tend to agree with you. In that case he needs help. However, as far as I know she's not a frum woman. This article was intended for the general female public that does not dress modestly, in order to show them that they're cheapening themselves by dressing immodestly. I appreciate your insights!
2. Racheli
6/22/2016
Thanks so much, Yael! Your question is very important. If she were dressing this way in private, I would tend to agree with you. In that case he needs help. However, as far as I know she's not a frum woman. This article was intended for the general female public that does not dress modestly, in order to show them that they're cheapening themselves by dressing immodestly. I appreciate your insights!
3. Yael
6/21/2016
Private/Public
Hi Racheli! I enjoy your weekly articles, and appreciate the time and effort you put into them. As I read through your latest, a question popped into my mind. Are your sure that Ilana was referring to dressing immodestly in public, or is it possible that she only dresses that way for her husband in the privacy of their home (when the kids are asleep, I'm hoping ;)? The reason why I bring this up is that my Rabbi counsels us that it is proper to dress nicely and put on make-up and perfume for our hubbies at home, and to dress/behave much more modestly outside the home – to the tune of going around sans make-up and plain clothing. If that's the case for her, and he's ignoring her, it could be a sitch of on-line porn addiction, Heaven Forbid. But if she is in fact dressing immodestly in public, your words of wisdom were spot-on!!! Thanks again for your great articles.
4. Yael
6/21/2016
Hi Racheli! I enjoy your weekly articles, and appreciate the time and effort you put into them. As I read through your latest, a question popped into my mind. Are your sure that Ilana was referring to dressing immodestly in public, or is it possible that she only dresses that way for her husband in the privacy of their home (when the kids are asleep, I'm hoping ;)? The reason why I bring this up is that my Rabbi counsels us that it is proper to dress nicely and put on make-up and perfume for our hubbies at home, and to dress/behave much more modestly outside the home – to the tune of going around sans make-up and plain clothing. If that's the case for her, and he's ignoring her, it could be a sitch of on-line porn addiction, Heaven Forbid. But if she is in fact dressing immodestly in public, your words of wisdom were spot-on!!! Thanks again for your great articles.
6/22/2016
Yael
Thanks so much, Yael! Your question is very important. If she were dressing this way in private, I would tend to agree with you. In that case he needs help. However, as far as I know she's not a frum woman. This article was intended for the general female public that does not dress modestly, in order to show them that they're cheapening themselves by dressing immodestly. I appreciate your insights!
6/22/2016
Thanks so much, Yael! Your question is very important. If she were dressing this way in private, I would tend to agree with you. In that case he needs help. However, as far as I know she's not a frum woman. This article was intended for the general female public that does not dress modestly, in order to show them that they're cheapening themselves by dressing immodestly. I appreciate your insights!
6/21/2016
Private/Public
Hi Racheli! I enjoy your weekly articles, and appreciate the time and effort you put into them. As I read through your latest, a question popped into my mind. Are your sure that Ilana was referring to dressing immodestly in public, or is it possible that she only dresses that way for her husband in the privacy of their home (when the kids are asleep, I'm hoping ;)? The reason why I bring this up is that my Rabbi counsels us that it is proper to dress nicely and put on make-up and perfume for our hubbies at home, and to dress/behave much more modestly outside the home – to the tune of going around sans make-up and plain clothing. If that's the case for her, and he's ignoring her, it could be a sitch of on-line porn addiction, Heaven Forbid. But if she is in fact dressing immodestly in public, your words of wisdom were spot-on!!! Thanks again for your great articles.
6/21/2016
Hi Racheli! I enjoy your weekly articles, and appreciate the time and effort you put into them. As I read through your latest, a question popped into my mind. Are your sure that Ilana was referring to dressing immodestly in public, or is it possible that she only dresses that way for her husband in the privacy of their home (when the kids are asleep, I'm hoping ;)? The reason why I bring this up is that my Rabbi counsels us that it is proper to dress nicely and put on make-up and perfume for our hubbies at home, and to dress/behave much more modestly outside the home – to the tune of going around sans make-up and plain clothing. If that's the case for her, and he's ignoring her, it could be a sitch of on-line porn addiction, Heaven Forbid. But if she is in fact dressing immodestly in public, your words of wisdom were spot-on!!! Thanks again for your great articles.