I especially liked your point about the prior relationship problems happening as a form of Hashem's chessed, to get Liat away from a loser. Many of us won't leave a harmful relationship (including friendships and other types of relationships) until they reach a certain level of intolerability. I am slowly starting to learn this and it prevents cynicism to see it as Hashem's way of protecting us from a particularly bad path; it shows how much Hashem loves us that He, in a sense, rips us away from that harmful person.
2. Dassie
1/12/2015
I especially liked your point about the prior relationship problems happening as a form of Hashem's chessed, to get Liat away from a loser. Many of us won't leave a harmful relationship (including friendships and other types of relationships) until they reach a certain level of intolerability. I am slowly starting to learn this and it prevents cynicism to see it as Hashem's way of protecting us from a particularly bad path; it shows how much Hashem loves us that He, in a sense, rips us away from that harmful person.
1/12/2015
Great point
I especially liked your point about the prior relationship problems happening as a form of Hashem's chessed, to get Liat away from a loser. Many of us won't leave a harmful relationship (including friendships and other types of relationships) until they reach a certain level of intolerability. I am slowly starting to learn this and it prevents cynicism to see it as Hashem's way of protecting us from a particularly bad path; it shows how much Hashem loves us that He, in a sense, rips us away from that harmful person.
1/12/2015
I especially liked your point about the prior relationship problems happening as a form of Hashem's chessed, to get Liat away from a loser. Many of us won't leave a harmful relationship (including friendships and other types of relationships) until they reach a certain level of intolerability. I am slowly starting to learn this and it prevents cynicism to see it as Hashem's way of protecting us from a particularly bad path; it shows how much Hashem loves us that He, in a sense, rips us away from that harmful person.