Racheli did you even try for one minute to put yourself in her shoes before you wrote this article?! How are you qualified to give such sensitive advice? A box of tissues!!!!! At the very least they need marriage counselling. You act (as does this website in general) as if it's a humiliating last resort to receive professional clinical help. Its not antithetical to emuna. It's the necessary first step for normal, intelligent people. Your views border on "kochi v'etzem yadi"….
2. yehudit
11/28/2014
Racheli did you even try for one minute to put yourself in her shoes before you wrote this article?! How are you qualified to give such sensitive advice? A box of tissues!!!!! At the very least they need marriage counselling. You act (as does this website in general) as if it's a humiliating last resort to receive professional clinical help. Its not antithetical to emuna. It's the necessary first step for normal, intelligent people. Your views border on "kochi v'etzem yadi"….
3. Racheli
12/18/2013
Re: first comment You're right. There is so much one can say on this topic. However, I must give an answer that will apply to the more general population. Obviously if there are deeper and more complicated issues the couple should seek therapy.
4. Racheli
12/18/2013
You're right. There is so much one can say on this topic. However, I must give an answer that will apply to the more general population. Obviously if there are deeper and more complicated issues the couple should seek therapy.
5. Sandra Spivak
12/12/2013
So much to say on this. Something darker happened after Sheva Brachas to me. Sometimes people bring their past issues to a marriage and NEED therapy to deal with addictions. it's beyond needing more attention which is the first thing people told me… "pay more attention to him". it wasn't the cause. I have way more to say but there aren't enough characters allotted here. Needless to say Chani it is not your fault
6. Anonymous
12/12/2013
Something darker happened after Sheva Brachas to me. Sometimes people bring their past issues to a marriage and NEED therapy to deal with addictions. it's beyond needing more attention which is the first thing people told me… "pay more attention to him". it wasn't the cause. I have way more to say but there aren't enough characters allotted here. Needless to say Chani it is not your fault
11/28/2014
Be careful, your shoes are not hers….
Racheli did you even try for one minute to put yourself in her shoes before you wrote this article?! How are you qualified to give such sensitive advice? A box of tissues!!!!! At the very least they need marriage counselling. You act (as does this website in general) as if it's a humiliating last resort to receive professional clinical help. Its not antithetical to emuna. It's the necessary first step for normal, intelligent people. Your views border on "kochi v'etzem yadi"….
11/28/2014
Racheli did you even try for one minute to put yourself in her shoes before you wrote this article?! How are you qualified to give such sensitive advice? A box of tissues!!!!! At the very least they need marriage counselling. You act (as does this website in general) as if it's a humiliating last resort to receive professional clinical help. Its not antithetical to emuna. It's the necessary first step for normal, intelligent people. Your views border on "kochi v'etzem yadi"….
12/18/2013
Re: first comment You're right. There is so much one can say on this topic. However, I must give an answer that will apply to the more general population. Obviously if there are deeper and more complicated issues the couple should seek therapy.
12/18/2013
You're right. There is so much one can say on this topic. However, I must give an answer that will apply to the more general population. Obviously if there are deeper and more complicated issues the couple should seek therapy.
12/12/2013
So much to say on this. Something darker happened after Sheva Brachas to me. Sometimes people bring their past issues to a marriage and NEED therapy to deal with addictions. it's beyond needing more attention which is the first thing people told me… "pay more attention to him". it wasn't the cause. I have way more to say but there aren't enough characters allotted here. Needless to say Chani it is not your fault
12/12/2013
Something darker happened after Sheva Brachas to me. Sometimes people bring their past issues to a marriage and NEED therapy to deal with addictions. it's beyond needing more attention which is the first thing people told me… "pay more attention to him". it wasn't the cause. I have way more to say but there aren't enough characters allotted here. Needless to say Chani it is not your fault