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1. Steve

10/30/2013

Would that erasing the symptom could erase the problem.. Would that erasing the symptoms could erase the problems. The problems are the Egos of one or the other or both and their distance from the (Third)One.

2. Anonymous

10/30/2013

Would that erasing the symptoms could erase the problems. The problems are the Egos of one or the other or both and their distance from the (Third)One.

3. Racheli

10/29/2013

Dassie Thank you so much for your comments! It's sad and true; many times the woman just doesn't know who the man is until after she marries him…

4. Racheli

10/29/2013

Thank you so much for your comments! It's sad and true; many times the woman just doesn't know who the man is until after she marries him…

5. Dassie

10/28/2013

Full of deep, innovative observations! What a great chiddush! I had never realized that it was "tit for tat," in that a woman attracting attention is wrecking her own marital harmony simply by virtue of her undignified and unholy way of dressing, which coincided nicely with Rabbi Brody's shiur this week, "Looking to Hashem." Thanks so much for another winner. I also think that many pretty women are married mostly for their looks. The guy acts very charming merely because he wants her beauty, and then his real self appears after the wedding. I know several cases like this, and they either have no shalom bayis or are divorced. The husband chose her for purely narcissitic reasons of lust and treated her poorly after they married because he only ever saw her as a "kosher pritzah" in the first place, which is the most demeaning way to view a woman — like a slave or a person with no soul. I feel very inspired by your article to improve myself on the points you mentioned. Thank you!

6. Dassie

10/28/2013

What a great chiddush! I had never realized that it was "tit for tat," in that a woman attracting attention is wrecking her own marital harmony simply by virtue of her undignified and unholy way of dressing, which coincided nicely with Rabbi Brody's shiur this week, "Looking to Hashem." Thanks so much for another winner. I also think that many pretty women are married mostly for their looks. The guy acts very charming merely because he wants her beauty, and then his real self appears after the wedding. I know several cases like this, and they either have no shalom bayis or are divorced. The husband chose her for purely narcissitic reasons of lust and treated her poorly after they married because he only ever saw her as a "kosher pritzah" in the first place, which is the most demeaning way to view a woman — like a slave or a person with no soul. I feel very inspired by your article to improve myself on the points you mentioned. Thank you!

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