thank you so much for this, i have struggled with not lashon hara of others, but basically thinking negatively of others just as a result of low self esteem and other insecurities i developed growing up. although i am careful not to speak any lashon hara i have been struggling all my life to stop by uncontrollable habit, thinking negatively and putting people down in my mind. i just simply don’t know how to do it. i don’t see myself having the time or patience to undo and unravel each negative thought that projects in my mind so quickly, it seems like it would be tiresome and exhausting, my best bet after reading this would be to pray for help and to simply try not to look at others intentionally as a subconscious reminder, until i am ready to use everything hashem gave me letovah.. thanks for listening!
5/17/2023
thank you so much for this, i have struggled with not lashon hara of others, but basically thinking negatively of others just as a result of low self esteem and other insecurities i developed growing up. although i am careful not to speak any lashon hara i have been struggling all my life to stop by uncontrollable habit, thinking negatively and putting people down in my mind. i just simply don’t know how to do it. i don’t see myself having the time or patience to undo and unravel each negative thought that projects in my mind so quickly, it seems like it would be tiresome and exhausting, my best bet after reading this would be to pray for help and to simply try not to look at others intentionally as a subconscious reminder, until i am ready to use everything hashem gave me letovah.. thanks for listening!