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1. yehudit

3/08/2010

what about happy, secular couples? When we were secular, we did all of the above, unfortunately, and did not have shalom bayit for 10 years and 3 children. We had many “wake up calls”. When we did teshuva, and most of the “list” above became a thing of the past, it was if we had finally met and married for the first time.
What about secular couples who do all of the above (as many of our friends do) and are happy? How do we explain this? Why do some couples merit a wake up call, whereas others are left to continue as they are?

2. yehudit

3/08/2010

When we were secular, we did all of the above, unfortunately, and did not have shalom bayit for 10 years and 3 children. We had many “wake up calls”. When we did teshuva, and most of the “list” above became a thing of the past, it was if we had finally met and married for the first time.
What about secular couples who do all of the above (as many of our friends do) and are happy? How do we explain this? Why do some couples merit a wake up call, whereas others are left to continue as they are?

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