i spk from personal experience If it had only been sports illustrated no big deal….but its not by a long shot. You can lead a horse to water but u can't force it to drink. When there is a will theres a way.when there is no will there is no way. Unless your husband acknowledges & accepts that he has serious problems & issues & wants to deal with it…& gets the help he needs ,then give it a chance,if not .don't waste too much time or effort if any. I speak from personal experience & my situation was worse .
2. Anonymous
7/25/2011
If it had only been sports illustrated no big deal….but its not by a long shot. You can lead a horse to water but u can't force it to drink. When there is a will theres a way.when there is no will there is no way. Unless your husband acknowledges & accepts that he has serious problems & issues & wants to deal with it…& gets the help he needs ,then give it a chance,if not .don't waste too much time or effort if any. I speak from personal experience & my situation was worse .
3. Anonymous
10/22/2009
It All Worked Out for the Best Anonymous author here – although normally we are 100% against divorce, in this case there was simply no relationship to save. As of this writing, I am divorced with a get after big miracles and living very happily in Israel. I had no idea that Hashem was destroying my life in order to give me a new life that was better than I ever could have dreamed of!!! Every minute was a battle back then, and now, every minute is a dream. With emuna, there is always a happy ending.
4. Anonymous
10/22/2009
Anonymous author here – although normally we are 100% against divorce, in this case there was simply no relationship to save. As of this writing, I am divorced with a get after big miracles and living very happily in Israel. I had no idea that Hashem was destroying my life in order to give me a new life that was better than I ever could have dreamed of!!! Every minute was a battle back then, and now, every minute is a dream. With emuna, there is always a happy ending.
5. Esther Abergel
10/26/2008
it’s an addiction I am so so sorry that you have had to go through this. Your pain is palpable. All I can say is make sure the therapists you are seeing treat this as an addiction and make sure he has treatment for this addiction. Resolutions and promises mean nothing unless he is working a program for his addiction with other people he is honest with. For your own sake make sure he is clean of addiction before resuming a relationship with him otherwise you will be tortured. I have seen too much of this happening
6. Anonymous
10/26/2008
I am so so sorry that you have had to go through this. Your pain is palpable. All I can say is make sure the therapists you are seeing treat this as an addiction and make sure he has treatment for this addiction. Resolutions and promises mean nothing unless he is working a program for his addiction with other people he is honest with. For your own sake make sure he is clean of addiction before resuming a relationship with him otherwise you will be tortured. I have seen too much of this happening
7/25/2011
i spk from personal experience If it had only been sports illustrated no big deal….but its not by a long shot. You can lead a horse to water but u can't force it to drink. When there is a will theres a way.when there is no will there is no way. Unless your husband acknowledges & accepts that he has serious problems & issues & wants to deal with it…& gets the help he needs ,then give it a chance,if not .don't waste too much time or effort if any. I speak from personal experience & my situation was worse .
7/25/2011
If it had only been sports illustrated no big deal….but its not by a long shot. You can lead a horse to water but u can't force it to drink. When there is a will theres a way.when there is no will there is no way. Unless your husband acknowledges & accepts that he has serious problems & issues & wants to deal with it…& gets the help he needs ,then give it a chance,if not .don't waste too much time or effort if any. I speak from personal experience & my situation was worse .
10/22/2009
It All Worked Out for the Best Anonymous author here – although normally we are 100% against divorce, in this case there was simply no relationship to save. As of this writing, I am divorced with a get after big miracles and living very happily in Israel. I had no idea that Hashem was destroying my life in order to give me a new life that was better than I ever could have dreamed of!!! Every minute was a battle back then, and now, every minute is a dream. With emuna, there is always a happy ending.
10/22/2009
Anonymous author here – although normally we are 100% against divorce, in this case there was simply no relationship to save. As of this writing, I am divorced with a get after big miracles and living very happily in Israel. I had no idea that Hashem was destroying my life in order to give me a new life that was better than I ever could have dreamed of!!! Every minute was a battle back then, and now, every minute is a dream. With emuna, there is always a happy ending.
10/26/2008
it’s an addiction I am so so sorry that you have had to go through this. Your pain is palpable. All I can say is make sure the therapists you are seeing treat this as an addiction and make sure he has treatment for this addiction. Resolutions and promises mean nothing unless he is working a program for his addiction with other people he is honest with. For your own sake make sure he is clean of addiction before resuming a relationship with him otherwise you will be tortured. I have seen too much of this happening
10/26/2008
I am so so sorry that you have had to go through this. Your pain is palpable. All I can say is make sure the therapists you are seeing treat this as an addiction and make sure he has treatment for this addiction. Resolutions and promises mean nothing unless he is working a program for his addiction with other people he is honest with. For your own sake make sure he is clean of addiction before resuming a relationship with him otherwise you will be tortured. I have seen too much of this happening